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Hey guys! So i want to surprise my boyfriend of 2 years and spice things up a bit! So last week when we were hooking up, he said to me, "Why don't you grow a strip of hair leading to your vagina, that'd be hot!" and then i was like "Nah, nah its okay." Because I thought he was totally joking. Yesterday I heard guys talking about how they think it's hot and I read a few things on the internet about how it turns on some guys. So now I'm assuming he wasn't joking.
This whole entire week I've been on my period. (personally one of the worst weeks ever because i want to hook up so bad but i cant!) ANYWAYS, having my period and not being able to hook up with him until its gone has made me so excited to be sexual with him next week. SO excited to the point where I want to surprise him with a landing strip! .. Because I'm assuming he thinks thats hot. I'm only 2 days into growing it out and its already getting there. But my question is, do you think when I take off my pants he will be grossed out or turned on? His humor is very sarcastic but I don't think he sounded sarcastic while talking about it. And he wouldn't be sarcastic about his sexual desires. Do you guys have any opinions? Do you have a boyfriend/husband that enjoys that? Please give me feedback and share your experiences
xoxo gabi
There are men that really like hair, men that really hate hair, men that don't care, and men that want it to at least be neat/trimmed. Some men do get grossed out by hair and it's not because they're attracted to children or that they don't want to be with a "real woman". They just prefer their woman to be clean and smooth. It sounds like your boyfriend might like it or he at least wants to see if its something that he might like. If he was being sarcastic, he deserves what he gets, right?
As much as the surprise sounds like fun, I would tell him about it ahead of time. It'll be surprise enough to see it for the first time. The element of surprise isn't worth much and letting him know will save you if he really does absolutely hate the idea. Not only that, but it may even be more fun and exciting for him to anticipate it.
Really though, it doesn't matter too much. If he loves it, he loves it. If he hates it, it's an easy fix and not a big deal at all. Good luck!
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