Hey guys! So i want to surprise my boyfriend of 2 years and spice things up a bit! So last week when we were hooking up, he said to me, "Why don't you grow a strip of hair leading to your vagina, that'd be hot!" and then i was like "Nah, nah its okay." Because I thought he was totally joking. Yesterday I heard guys talking about how they think it's hot and I read a few things on the internet about how it turns on some guys. So now I'm assuming he wasn't joking.
This whole entire week I've been on my period. (personally one of the worst weeks ever because i want to hook up so bad but i cant!) ANYWAYS, having my period and not being able to hook up with him until its gone has made me so excited to be sexual with him next week. SO excited to the point where I want to surprise him with a landing strip! .. Because I'm assuming he thinks thats hot. I'm only 2 days into growing it out and its already getting there. But my question is, do you think when I take off my pants he will be grossed out or turned on? His humor is very sarcastic but I don't think he sounded sarcastic while talking about it. And he wouldn't be sarcastic about his sexual desires. Do you guys have any opinions? Do you have a boyfriend/husband that enjoys that? Please give me feedback and share your experiences
xoxo gabi
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? sizzlinmandolin answered Monday April 15 2013, 5:29 pm: There are men that really like hair, men that really hate hair, men that don't care, and men that want it to at least be neat/trimmed. Some men do get grossed out by hair and it's not because they're attracted to children or that they don't want to be with a "real woman". They just prefer their woman to be clean and smooth. It sounds like your boyfriend might like it or he at least wants to see if its something that he might like. If he was being sarcastic, he deserves what he gets, right?
As much as the surprise sounds like fun, I would tell him about it ahead of time. It'll be surprise enough to see it for the first time. The element of surprise isn't worth much and letting him know will save you if he really does absolutely hate the idea. Not only that, but it may even be more fun and exciting for him to anticipate it.
adviceman49 answered Monday April 15 2013, 8:30 am: I will give you my perspective as a man. When I make love to a women and I take down her panties I want to see some hair. To me a totally shaved women looks like a child. Pubic hair is for me what makes the difference.
I understand from a personal hygiene point of view why you might want to shave your vaginal area though shaving your pubic bush to me is unnecessary. I also under stand the need to trim it for your swim suit in the summer. In the winter a totally wild bush to me is exciting.
Moral of my short story is we guy are finding pubic hair to be more exciting than a shaved or totally shaved pubic and vaginal area. More and more XXX rated movies the female stars are showing pubic hair as is amateur pictures of women. So I believe your boyfriend is not joking when he asked for a landing strip. Make it as wide as you can. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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