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Ok so I'm only 15/F and I want to get pregnant. I have a job and I'm pretty sure I could take care of a baby. I have all As in school and I just think pregnant bellies are so cute and baby's are too..sometimes I pretend with my sisters baby dolls but my friend Korey who I want to get pregnant by is black and I'm white and that is just not acceptable in my family...
Believe me the black-white thing is the least of your worries. I dont mean to be condescending, but when a question like this comes along I think first and foremost about the future child rather than the person asking. Thing is, if someone is contemplating getting pregnant on the basis that "pregnant bellies are so cute and babies* are too" massive warning bells go off.
Not to mention that you are 15 and in school. Do you have any idea how much time and money is needed to raise a child? Girls a lot older than you have had their whole lives turned upside down because they underestimated what it takes.
This is a horribly bad idea. Do not do it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for making sense when I was being REALLY stupid. I see the things you said are true and wanted to come back here and thank you for saving me from a HUGE mistake! THANK YOU!