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Do you guys honestly think that everyone is destined to meet someone? Especially during a certain time of their life.
I feel like everyone around me has someone or has people in their life they could potentially be with. Whereas me, I don't know anyone who I can see myself with at all. I'm about to be 21 and I can honestly say I've never really been in true love before and Im scared because my life is going to get tougher and more hectic as I continue with school and my career and I'm worried I won't find anyone. I'm also worried that the longer I hold out on finding someone, the more people I could have potentially be with, will find someone else. Sorry for sounding a bit confusing with my thoughts. But what do you think?

I think instead of putting so much pressure on yourself you should hang out with people that seem nice and be open to new people. So many people meet "the one" on accident or by getting to know someone they hadn't considered before. Worrying about it because your life is hectic or will be hectic is normal. Like I said, don't put so much pressure on yourself. Be calm and relaxed. If you see someone you might find interesting, talk to them. Doesn't matter the place or time. Not to mention you really are young. You will find someone and it might be when you least expect it. enjoy your life and have fun and give people a chance. Best of luck :)

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(Rating: 5) I just moved to a new town and I am very consumed with school. It's hard to just meet people and hang just like that. But I will take your advice and not worry so much. If there is someone I do happen to like, I will try to find out more about them. Thanks again!

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