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Is love meant for everyone?
Do you guys honestly think that everyone is destined to meet someone? Especially during a certain time of their life.
I feel like everyone around me has someone or has people in their life they could potentially be with. Whereas me, I don't know anyone who I can see myself with at all. I'm about to be 21 and I can honestly say I've never really been in true love before and Im scared because my life is going to get tougher and more hectic as I continue with school and my career and I'm worried I won't find anyone. I'm also worried that the longer I hold out on finding someone, the more people I could have potentially be with, will find someone else. Sorry for sounding a bit confusing with my thoughts. But what do you think?
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Hi there!
I think that everyone is destined to be with someone but just a matter of patience and faith. You'll meet them when you least expect it. Life is full of suprises! so dont be discouraged, focus on school and your career. Do something fun where you can meet alot of people like take a dance class or something that interests you.
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I believe love happens when its supposed to,i think that.its great to focus on.school and.work,but if you really want to be with someone look into speed dating,or going tobs spot that you like hanging out,etc..give.it.a try! everyone hope this helped in some way good luck!
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You're dealing with fate here, most romantics think you are fated to find your only, but I feel your fate is determined by your actions. You will find whomever is on the path you have chosen to follow. Do you really think that if you choose the path of say a druggy, that your going to find your great love to be a doctor, or a lawyer? No the odds are it's going to be a druggy and you'll live with most of your money going to drugs. If there is anything I've learned from life is that you will find many people that you will love and you will surely marry one of them, but with everyone of them you choose a different life. You can choose to find your love at any time, or to die single, some have, but until you choose a path, how is it you can find the love that will choose to walk it with you? Don't waste your time looking, until you find your path and never waste your time on someone who doesn't know their path. It is in wanting to follow the same path that you will find your bliss.
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In my lifetime I have learned that the longer and harder you try to deal with something, the harder it is going to be to find the answer. Your question fits quite nicely into that thought.
I'm old enough to be your grandfather and I have seen a lot of this type of worry and done a fair bit of it myself. There are times that you just have to relax and let life run its course. Then when you least expect it, wham o the answer smacks you in the face. In your case it most likely will be a beautiful kiss on the cheek that will make your legs grow week.
Your still very young and should be concentrating on school and your career. In today's world a women can have it all. A wonderful career, a husband and family. To get there you need to prioritize. If along the way the write man comes along you adjust. That doesn't mean you give up your goals in life.
Today many women put off marriage and families until they are much older than you. At 21 you are far from an old maid; a term from my grandparents era when a girl if she was not married by 18 was considered an old maid.
My advise is to relax and stop worrying. From what you have written I see nothing wrong with your life. You have goals you want to obtain. Those are good, somewhere along the way you will meet that guy who will make you weak in the knees just by a kiss on the cheek.
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I think instead of putting so much pressure on yourself you should hang out with people that seem nice and be open to new people. So many people meet "the one" on accident or by getting to know someone they hadn't considered before. Worrying about it because your life is hectic or will be hectic is normal. Like I said, don't put so much pressure on yourself. Be calm and relaxed. If you see someone you might find interesting, talk to them. Doesn't matter the place or time. Not to mention you really are young. You will find someone and it might be when you least expect it. enjoy your life and have fun and give people a chance. Best of luck :)
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