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I babysit until midnight for this woman, so she can't drive me home. Her kids are in bed and they have school the next morning, so shed have to wake them up. So, she has one of her coworkers drive me home. He's really nice.. But, he's gay. I feel really uncomfortable about it. I sensed it the first time he drove me home, he said a house was pretty. And then I told him I liked country music and he said, So reba? I think she's country i know she has a tv show... And well I haven't ever heard a straight guy say anything like that! So I decided to facebook him and well it turns out he is in fact gay and in a relationship for 20 years with a man.... What should I do? I just feel so weird about this! The bible says homosexuality is a sin and I'm associating with someone who is choosing to live in sin with a man!
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I respect people's opinions and religious beliefs, I really do.however I do not respect people who allow their beliefs to interfere with others lives. I by all means am not a religious petson and I do not believe in jesus. I still however respect people who choose to believe these things. This man has the RIGHT to be gay and live it freely. You are allowing yourself to be uncomfortable by judging him. It is 2013, half. Of the worlds population is gay/bisexual/lesbian it's just the way things are. This man may be gay but does this mean he is bad? No. This man is human and has feelings, This man fave you a ride home and was very nice too you. I think you need to lighten up and learn to be more respectful of others instead of being a prude.
(Rating: 3) I haven't let it interfere with him in any way, nor have I mentioned to him that his lifestyle choice is wrong. And I've chosen to try and grin and bear it. Aside from his homosexuality he is a nice man. He goes out of his way to take me home and he works in a nursing home... Helps care for the elderly. I'm not going to say anything to him about it, I still feel uncomfortable about it but oh well.