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about
I'm a mother of 2 boys who are 13 months apart. Talk about a handful. I'm a wife to the best husband I could have ever dreamed of.I'm one of the very blessed.
I have Bipolar 1 Disorder. I hate taking all these medications and always going to doctors appointments, but life is too short to let mental illness get the better of me.
Often times life is a challenge, and nobody knows that better than me. I wake up wondering if this is going to be a day my illness overpowers my meds, and either sends me flying like a bat out of hell, or leaves me laying on the couch like a wet dish rag.
Thank all that is good in the world that I have an excellent support system at home.
I'm one of the lucky ones.
I'm honest, and that can either be a perk or s flaw. Depends on how you choose to look at it.
I like to see it as a perk, because it's better to hear the truth than to be told candy coated bullshit.
advice
Im 14 and my boyfriend and i got together in december. He's kissed me twice, but he wont talk to me. I sit next to him and his friends everyday at school because he saves me a seat, but when i save him a seat with my friends, he just walks past me. On the rare occasion that he does talk to me, he wont even look at me, even though when i stand up in class or he sees me in the hall, his eyes are glued to me. Texting is the same way. When he texts me, in the middle of our conversations he cuts it off saying he has to work out or go do chores or its family movie night. When i text him, he rarely ever replies. This happens every time. There has been some problems with his friends thinking im weird annoying and stupid, but he swears he doesnt think so. WHat do i do. Im scared to confront him because i dont know how and i dont want to ruin this relationship.
I know you're scared to confront him, but you seriously need to. Because let me tell you, my outside of the box point of view is this: It doesn't sound like he isn't into you or anything, but it does sound like he isn't being your boyfriend.
Honestly, it doesn't sound like you really have a relationship to speak of at this time, so what is there to ruin? By talking to him about it, you have a chance to BUILD a relationship. Like I said, it seems like he does like you, but we ladies must always remember that guys are not mind readers, so we have to tell them how we feel about things, hard as it may be sometimes.
If you want things to get better, you have to communicate with the guy. Communication is one of the key ingredients to a healthy relationship.
So, tell him you need to meet up with him in private sometime outside of school and just open up. If you're worried that you'll run him off, then piss on him- he was wasting your time to begin with. But its worth the chance of bringing you closer and establishing a better relationship that works both ways.
IF he won't talk to you? Then he IS wasting your time. Break it off and find someone who will appreciate you. Ok?
By the way- just because his friends think you're weird doesn't mean he thinks the same. He isn't his friends.
(Rating: 5) Thank you thank you :) im going to talk to him about it tomorrow though im still a little freaked about doing it. You are totally right. Thanks again :)