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I am a 13 yr old girl from australia. I was masturbating and i put an empty deoderent bottle in my vagina to give me pleasure and when i took it out there was blood on it i was so scared that i thought i lost my virginity please help me i dont wanna tell my dad anything. I dont know if it was my period or not but please help me i need advice

Hi there,
No, you Haven't lost your virginity.
You may have broken your hymen(the skin between your vagina and cervix) or "popped your cherry" as it's sometimes known. You cease being a virgin when a Penis enters your vagina. Then and only then. It doesn't matter if your hymen has been broken before that or not. You are still a virgin until you have penetrative sex.
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(Rating: 5) thank you! but how can i ever PROVE i am a virgin if i broke my "hymen?" dont girls lie about this all the time? i know my friends do.

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