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im worried ive lost my virginity
I am a 13 yr old girl from australia. I was masturbating and i put an empty deoderent bottle in my vagina to give me pleasure and when i took it out there was blood on it i was so scared that i thought i lost my virginity please help me i dont wanna tell my dad anything. I dont know if it was my period or not but please help me i need advice
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First answer's dead right mate. Sounds like you've popped your cherry, but don't get stressed about it. It can happen during physical stuff like sports, or maybe if a girl goes horse riding a lot. The blood does NOT mean you've damaged yourself in any way either. When you find your dream-guy he'll still be the one you properly lose your virginity with, so no worries about that. I really don't see why you need to tell your dad, or mum anything about it. It's sure they'll kind of know you'll be pleasuring yourself, they were 13 themselves once. But they won't want it 'in their face' if you see what I mean? And don't get any hang-ups either. Masturbating is perfectly natural for a healthy girl of your age. It'd be odd if you didn't! And well, you wanted to feel what it was like...the deodorant bottle was handy, eh? You're not the first and you certainly won't be the last there I can assure you! But don't use anything rough or with edges sweetheart or you could damage or irritate yourself down there, apart from it being pretty uncomfortable. Don't give it another thought, you're fine.
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Hi there,
No, you Haven't lost your virginity.
You may have broken your hymen(the skin between your vagina and cervix) or "popped your cherry" as it's sometimes known. You cease being a virgin when a Penis enters your vagina. Then and only then. It doesn't matter if your hymen has been broken before that or not. You are still a virgin until you have penetrative sex.
Much <3
Jess 19/f
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