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*happy
*employed
*married
*large extended family
*bisexual
*advanced college degree
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advice

i m in india aurangabad maharashtra.

my married friend affair with married woman last 3 years. i m very jelous. why she choose my friend nad not to me ?

i m single. i m clearly avoid mariied woman relationship. but jelously why they happily go ahed. that woman husband is a hard drinker. she have a 10 year son. why she is not thinking about her future. my friend is selfish , when attraction is lost ( sex ) they are not interested that woman.

in this matter i m in highly tension. i meet that woman 2-3 times. she is known to me.
but jelously why she choose my friend and not me because i m handsome and single.

kindly suggestion this matter

thanks.

She probably chose your friend because he is married and you are not. It doesn't have anything to do with how attractive, intelligent, or desirable you are. Since he is married, she probably doesn't think it is as risky to have an affair with him. It is something that they have in common. He isn't going to expose her as his mistress because that would mean exposing himself to his own wife as an adulterer as well. If you're handsome and single, go out and find a different woman. Even if she is attractive, like you said, you don't really want this woman anyway, she seems kind of trashy. Go out and find single women to date and try not to worry so much about married people that are cheating. There's no need to make that your problem. I understand how it could make you jealous, but it really has nothing to do with you. If you're worried about your own attractiveness, you could lose confidence and it may be more difficult to attract a woman that wants to date you. Stop worrying about what's wrong with you and you'll appear more confident and attractive to prospective partners. Like I said, nothing is wrong with you, she is only with him because he is married. If you had been married, she may have chosen you instead. Good luck.

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