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jelously: married friend having affair
i m in india aurangabad maharashtra.
my married friend affair with married woman last 3 years. i m very jelous. why she choose my friend nad not to me ?
i m single. i m clearly avoid mariied woman relationship. but jelously why they happily go ahed. that woman husband is a hard drinker. she have a 10 year son. why she is not thinking about her future. my friend is selfish , when attraction is lost ( sex ) they are not interested that woman.
in this matter i m in highly tension. i meet that woman 2-3 times. she is known to me.
but jelously why she choose my friend and not me because i m handsome and single.
kindly suggestion this matter
thanks.
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I was married to a man for 14 years and I was totally faithful for the first 11 years of that marriage, then I went crazy and started having one affair after the next. Most of the affairs were with single men but that's only because I didn't want to be known as a home-wrecker and so I tried to avoid married men. However, there is much less risk of being exposed when you are involved in having an affair with a married man. That being said..... Why would you want to have an affair with a married lady? If she'll cheat on her husband, she'll cheat on you too. Next, have you ever had an affair with a married person? It's fulfilling sexually but then what? you are left with all the guilt and shame. You just feel dirty and what if it were to be exposed, what if you became the reason that this lady ended up divorced? She has a 10 year old son... Do you really want to be responsible for that? She seems like a seductress who has wooo'd you and your friend and she ended up sleeping with him just because he's less risk. She is probably seeking validation from any man whom she can get to give her attention. She is obviously not getting what she needs from home or she wouldn't be laying with other men. I know from experience. Women who cheat are generally not looking for just sex, we are looking for someone who sees us as special.
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She probably chose your friend because he is married and you are not. It doesn't have anything to do with how attractive, intelligent, or desirable you are. Since he is married, she probably doesn't think it is as risky to have an affair with him. It is something that they have in common. He isn't going to expose her as his mistress because that would mean exposing himself to his own wife as an adulterer as well. If you're handsome and single, go out and find a different woman. Even if she is attractive, like you said, you don't really want this woman anyway, she seems kind of trashy. Go out and find single women to date and try not to worry so much about married people that are cheating. There's no need to make that your problem. I understand how it could make you jealous, but it really has nothing to do with you. If you're worried about your own attractiveness, you could lose confidence and it may be more difficult to attract a woman that wants to date you. Stop worrying about what's wrong with you and you'll appear more confident and attractive to prospective partners. Like I said, nothing is wrong with you, she is only with him because he is married. If you had been married, she may have chosen you instead. Good luck.
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