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this guy we were friends like way back.. then lost contact for ages.. suddenly has been getting close and really giving me all the attention thru texts and dinners... i know for a fact he can be busy... but he does have time to text me like 100 times a day (exaggeration) but u get it, a certain good morning to start the day and definitely a good night to end it...and lots in between...
OUT OF NOWHERE this all disappeared.
fine.. we never discussed what we were or what that was about. we were just nice and sweet.
BUT NOW I MISS IT
and i have no idea what ever happened!!
he sometimes says hello been busy ... then i reply then NOTHING EVER anymore...
so i kinda told him, "should i even reply because youre too busy to text back" and of course NOTHING.
where was the "friendship"?
why did this guy act this way???
i am so confused, disappointed and here i go again- confirming my fear of committment and trust issues are really getting the better of me.
why cant he open up or what?!?!
at least i thought i was a friend he can open up to .. :(
am 34...
In my opinion, no matter how busy you are you have time to reply to a text. People often use "busy" as an excuse to not do things, and this is what it sounds like to me.
Now, I have no idea what kind of relationship you guys had beyond what is written in the question, but the way this guy is acting, it sounds very much like he liked you more than friends. If I am right, then he is now trying to distance himself so as to be able to move on.
Again, I can't be sure, but I have seen this pattern many times. The guy tries to get close, the girl somehow sees it all as a friendship, eventually the guy realises he will get nowhere and so he breaks it off so as to be able to heal and move on.
Anyway, only you can tell if I am on to anything here. If I am not, well... it was worth a shot :P
Good luck :)
(Rating: 5) a friend of mine gave me the same advice too- like he has to heal.. thanks! maybe.. well i texted him and were on replying basis again now... crazy little thing called love! haha thanks!!!