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Long Story Short; my mom was 17, my dad was 15 when i was born. they fought, she cheated, he left. She hasn't let him be in my life. AT ALL. since i was 3. I'm going to be 17 in less than 2 months.
so. Yesterday I went with my boyfriend, to meet him. & it was a good experience. My boyfriend says he can tell he loves me, that hes a good guy and that he wants to be there for me. I told my mom today that i met him and she WENT OFF. and told me if i want to see him i have to get out. Is there something I can do about this?
Hey there, Hmm this is a tough situation. Your mom has no right to keep you from seeing your father. Thats something you should be able to decide for yourself. she shouldnt get in the way of your relationship with your father simply becauae she has issues with him. Sit down with her and explain calmly and maturely that you have a right to see your father and you would like a chance at forming a relationahip with him. Ask her what her problems are with him and why she won t t t allow you to see him. If she doesn't see reason I suggest maybe getting another adult involves to speak to her about it try to stress the importance of a relationahip with ImIyour father,and that you should be allowed the chance to form an opinion of him yourself. Like an aunt uncle grandad or grandmother. I'm sorry your mom is being difficult.If she doesnt let up maybe wait until you are in a position to move out so you are free to see him of your own accord without her ridiculous threat to throw you out. Or perhaps ask can you live with your dad if thats an option. Good Luck and much
(Rating: 5) Thanks! The only problem with that, is my mom is immature, inconsiderate, and not a mother at all. I take care of her kids more than she does. And my aunt is against him. & other than that i have no unlce, grandma or grandpa besides on my dad's side. other than a grandma of my siblings, who doesn't have an opinion as she doesn't know him. But thanks for the advice!