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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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okay, I've had this friend for almost 4 years on and off;
well about three weeks ago, she came over and stayed the night; and everything was fine. I took her home the next morning; and we talked a little bit after that;
which is normal; we don't talk every single day; just here and there.
well, today I get on facebook and I was going to tell her I missed her on her wall; and when I did, I realized we weren't friends on there anymore.
So I texted her, and I asked her how come we weren't friends on FB anymore, and NO TEXT BACK.
I sent two more about an hour apart; and nothing.
Well, I found out that she has a new facebook because she is still friends with my mother; and her status said 'new facebook, had to get some people off my other one-add me'
and I sent her a message saying 'idk if you got my texts, but im just curous as to why you deleted me; everything was great between us; and I know I haven't done anything to you; I would like an explaination and than I will leave you alone'
and nothing.
Idk what the hell happened; and I obviously can't ask her because she won't talk to me..
any advice?
Hey there, Hmm that is a little strange alright. I hate to say it but she obviously isn't a real friend if she just goes and deletes you off facebook without an explanation! Her actions were selfish and immature not to mention inconsiderate of your feelings. You don't need people like that in your life. I know it hurts but she isn't worth it. I know you really want an explanation.but you have done your bit and she refuses to reply. It just shows she is a coward who slyly deleted you off of facebook becase she can't handle confrontation. I would not text her again. its only giving her ammunition. You dont wanna come off desperate. Dont buy into her crap. What you cold do is ask another friend do they know why she deleted you and wont text back. Other than that I would say move on people like that are not worth your time or energy. Good luck and much
(Rating: 5) You are so right! I've done my part, so I have no regrets. I'm kind of glad we aren't friends; she's 19 and NEVER has money, so its hard to hang with her; when I always have to pay. I feel a relief. Thank you Jess!