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I was talking to this guy for about a while. We planned on hanging out and then he said it wanted it to be just us,so it was obviously a date. I was busy for about a week so we didn't really talk. Then I went to text him and he seemed really distant. Then the next week I found out he's dating this other girl. Obviously I was hurt and just stopped talking to him. This happened in March. Now today he "bumped" into me,gave me a hug and asked how I was. He walked with me to class and this is awkward but he bent over so I could bump into him and was really flirty. I didn't want to be rude to him then but im still really angry about what he did. Today I went and checked Facebook and he's still dat
ing the other girl. I feel like he's a jerk that doesn't deserve my time but I still like him. What should I do?
Hey there,
Okay you summed it up in a nutshell when you said "I feel like he's a jerk that doesn't deserve my time"
You're right he IS a jerk. And a player at that. Sorry to be blunt but it's obvious he had you and that girl on the go at the same time. When you were busy that week he must have decided to go with the other girl. And now he is flirting with you because he still thinks he can have you whenever he wants. Don't give him the satisfaction. Trust me I know I've been there. It's soo hard because they can be so sweet and charming then the next minute cold and disinterested. But you tend to forget about all that crap when they are being really sweet.
But don't you will be playing right into the palm of his hand otherwise.
If he really liked you he would have text you when you didn't really talk to see if you were okay or what was going on. But he didn't he flitted off with some other girl.
Left it to you to initiate conversation.
He isn't worth your time move on to someone who will truly appreciate you.
In the meantime don't flirt with him don't even acknowledge him. If he texts ignore it or be really short. Let him know you are in control here.
Keep busy with friends and other activities to keep your mind off him. Before you know it someone better will come along.
Good luck hope I helped
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(Rating: 5) Thank you. And yeah mow he's fliritng with my other friend too. Im done with jerks