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Laura/22/England



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Ok so about a week ago I broke up with a guy because he isolated me from my friends, but I still love him so much. He told me last night that he wants to kiss me one last time on Monday when we see each other at school. I want to kiss him more than anything in the world, Im scared though. We've kissed before but we arent dating now and I dont want people to think we're back together. He told me early this morning that he loves my best friend. I was so hurt. I mean, your not supposed to go for your ex's bestie. Like seriously I was pretty pissed off. I told him I love him and he said he loves my best friend. Well isnt this great. Then, he appologized for everything and I dont know what to say. I love him and I want to kiss him on Monday. Should I?

You broke up, he tells you he wants to give you a final kiss and then tells you he's in love with your best friend..
If I were in your position, I wouldn't even be talking to him, let alone considering kissing him.
Sad thing is though, no matter what anyone on here tells you, you're gonna follow how YOU feel.. before you make any rash decisions, think about this: What will kissing him "one last time" actually achieve? It's not gonna help you get over it, it's gonna create more feelings. Sounds to me like you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
The best thing to do in this situation is give yourself some time - figure out what you both actually want. If you should be together, then eventually, you will be.
Let me know what you decide to do and what happens in feedback.

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(Rating: 5) We kissed and we're back together
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