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How could he love her?
Ok so about a week ago I broke up with a guy because he isolated me from my friends, but I still love him so much. He told me last night that he wants to kiss me one last time on Monday when we see each other at school. I want to kiss him more than anything in the world, Im scared though. We've kissed before but we arent dating now and I dont want people to think we're back together. He told me early this morning that he loves my best friend. I was so hurt. I mean, your not supposed to go for your ex's bestie. Like seriously I was pretty pissed off. I told him I love him and he said he loves my best friend. Well isnt this great. Then, he appologized for everything and I dont know what to say. I love him and I want to kiss him on Monday. Should I?
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You broke up, he tells you he wants to give you a final kiss and then tells you he's in love with your best friend..
If I were in your position, I wouldn't even be talking to him, let alone considering kissing him.
Sad thing is though, no matter what anyone on here tells you, you're gonna follow how YOU feel.. before you make any rash decisions, think about this: What will kissing him "one last time" actually achieve? It's not gonna help you get over it, it's gonna create more feelings. Sounds to me like you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.
The best thing to do in this situation is give yourself some time - figure out what you both actually want. If you should be together, then eventually, you will be.
Let me know what you decide to do and what happens in feedback.
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What kind of guy leaves you for your best friend? Any guy knows that boundary and honestly, if you kiss him, then you're just submitting yourself to him. He probably apologized to you because of how pissed off you were since he told you he was 'in love' with your best friend. Look, any guy who tells their ex they're in love with their best friend is a guy who doesn't deserve to be with a decent girl. And you should not tolerate him. How does your friend feel about this issue? Will she go out with him? I think you need to give your relationship some space before you decide to make a decision because no guy in his right mind should have even told you such words.
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