So lately my life has taken a turn and three guys who I happened to all like asked me out on dates.
I've gone out with one of them a few times and I really like him. He's barely 21 and I am 18. He's a way sweet and cute guy and we have a ton in common.
On the other hand this guy who is a year or two younger asked me to his prom and I said yes. The thing is where I live people just don't go out on dates with multiple people. I want to date around and I don't want anything serious how do I tell these two guys that's what I want? The older guy will probably understand but I'm worried about the other one. The third guy has already passed it by me that he doesn't want a one on one dating experience either.
I feel a bit sleazy doing this but at this time in my life I am too young to be in a relationship.
How do I clear this up with these two lovely guys?
sparkle26 answered Saturday April 21 2012, 5:33 pm: Tell them you would like to take it slow, and you are not ready to be in a relationship yet. tell them how you have feelings for each of them and would possibly like to commit to them later, but for now, you want to take your time and not grow up too fast. if each of them understand, then they are respectful, patient and loyal to you. if they question your honesty, and seem controlling, don't bother with them. you deserve a guy that treats you right. he will come in good time. you are young and have your whole life ahead of you. there are plenty of fish in the sea. [ sparkle26's advice column | Ask sparkle26 A Question ]
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