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Ok so im 15 and my boyfriend tried to finger me last night and it was just embarrassing because he couldn't even get his finger in really! I have orgasmed before by just rubbing myself and have tried fingering myself but i cant even do it. I am mentally ready to have a sexual relationship and im not nervous but i just dont know what to do! He has eaten me out becasue he tried to get it more wet down there but that still didnt help. I know there is a layering you have to break but people have told me that some sports will make you break it with out sexual activity such as cyclying or horse riding. Well iv been riding horses since i was 4 and i guess that didnt work ahah; so please just some advice would help. And please dont give any advice on my emotional ready-ness because there is really no point.
Sorry for the grammar issues in this i typed fast aha

The only thing you can try is using lube. If you use tampons instead of pads your hymen should already be broken; if not then it could still be intact and the problem. It is rare but some hymens are so tough that they have to be surgically cut in to, if that's the case then looks like you won't be doing much (don't try anything stupid like using a knife, you'll only hurt yourself).
I suggest you or your boyfriend goes out and gets lube and you try it alone first. Use as much as you need, gl

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(Rating: 5) Thank you a bunch lube helped!
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