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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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Well,I have a boyfriend,he has so many friends and hasn't stopped meeting them as well as hanging out with them since we first met,I just felt like giving more importance to the relationship from the very beginning of it,so I started to lose contact with everyone of them,all of a sudden I realized I was completely alone,just my partner and I.So now I'd like to get them back or make more friends I don't know,it's not fair that my bf can still have his friends and I don't,I'm feeling like I was only devoted to him,I don't wanna do that anymore,there are some weekends when he goes to parties or nightclubs along with his friends and I just stay home watching a movie with my cat:(the whole night thinking about my friends and all the things we used to do together back then when I was a single one.
Hey there,
You're right it isn't fair that he has a great circle of friends and your left on your own.
Whats stopping you from going with him?
mixing with his group of friends?getting him to introduce you to some of his friends?
It's not natural that he keeps his girlfriend and friends separate. I mean my boyfriend hangs out with me and my friends all the time and vice versa. Talk to your boyfriend about how your feeling alone and left out. Tell him how much you miss your friends and having a social life. He is bound to understand.
In the meantime why not get back in contact with your old friends?see how they're doing what they are up to? maybe ask to hang out ? talk about old times to break the ice.
apologize for losing contact. say that you didn't mean to come across as the type that forgets all about their friends but you were just so excited about having a new relationship. It happens if they are good friends they will understand.
If that doesn't work or is not an option why not think about taking up a hobby? something that will allow you to meet new people?
have a think about it :)
best of luck and I hoped I helped.
If you have anymore questions feel free to inbox me.
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(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot!!!I'll talk to him about this:)