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I'm 21 years old, have had my share of different types of relationships so I enjoy answering love life questions. Whether it's about getting closer emotionally or physically don't hesitate to ask, hopefully I'll be able to help. I also love the medical field and will be a registered nurse soon. If you have any questions regarding a recent medical diagnosis (don't ask for one please, not a doctor) I can help you better understand it and the treatment as well
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... could that ever happen????? i mean, i know i'm fat, im 230 pounds. i've come to terms with it but... is it possible for a hot guy to like a chuby girl? i think i have a good personality. i have a great sense of humor, im girly, and i have brown cruly hair, and my friends all coo at me because i'm "cute' sometimes... i mean, is it possible? the guy i like is muscular and hot. i don't expect anything, but i'm just wondering if in general such a thing is plausible... i've never been dated, or even kissed before, sois it because im fat? thanks. ~^3^~
To be honest there isn't a lot of guys out there that like big girls; there are some but not very much. I know pretty much all models these days are tall and extremely skinny but not all guys like that ( a lot do but not all). So it just depends on what the guy likes. Just because he's muscluar doesn't mean that he's more attracted to girls that are in shape though. Like me; I do a lot of weight lifting and you can say I'm pretty muscular but I've always been more attracted to thick women, very well developed women. That isn't to say Im not attracted to ones that are a little bigger or a little smaller, but some of the models these days don't do it for me (way too small).
So maybe you should look back on his past relationships to see what kind of girls he's dated before. If he's like the many that like them really small then dont feel bad, like I said we all have our preferences.
I do see a Problem in Your question, you can say im not exactly convinsed that your happy about the way you look. You say that your friends think your cute and that you like your personality but i didn't read that your confident in your looks or you yourself think your attractive. I could be wrong, but if your not happy with them then go ahead and get the body that you want, it might take a while but I can say from experience that it's worth it. I wasn't happy with how i looked and how strong I was so I started working out; 2 years later and I'm still working out 6 times a week :). Im not saying its easy but it sure beats not being happy about the way you look.
Gl and I hope your his type
(Rating: 5) Awww, thank you very much. I like how you were honest. :DD