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hi.. i like this boy and he likes me.. i don,t know if he is mocking me but we,ve been tlking and he said he will love me forever and tht im his one and only but i don,t know if tht is true.. he is a really nice guy and i really like him we have a lot in common and he always try to tell me positive things.. he say tht he will love to marry me someday...what should i do believe him or not ... (link)
How is this even an issue?! You two are both children still! You cannot even fathom what Love truly is! I'm nearly 21 and don't know what love is! You may think you 'love' someone, but you don't. You just really like them.

A 15 year old does not know what is in their best interest, and knows nothing of the world. When he says that 'he will love [you] forever and that [you're] his one and only', he either thinks that he thinks that, or knows he doesn't think it. So he either childishly really likes you, or he is lying.

And you say you don't know whether you should believe him about marriage?! Of course you shouldn't! Even if you did believe him, the chances of you two getting married is very unlikely. Why? Because as children, life is not confusing, and one of the most confusing things is what to do after school. Not how to pay for a wedding, who will cater it, what music you will have, and whether to have a large or small event. You will both meet many many more people, and change your minds as many times.

In short, don't try to grow up so fast. If you have a crush on him, go for it. But don't be so serious about it! You're 15! You may think you have grown up, but I can assure you, at 15, we all have a lot more growing up to do.


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thx your right..




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