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Laura/22/England



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I feel like such a slut. I've never had sex with anybody and have only kissed anyone about two times. But, I have sent naked photos of myself to two much older men online who I believed love me at the time. The first was when I was 13. The second when I was 15. I am currently 16. Help? I feel terrible.

You are not a slut. You were just very, very naive. but it's good you have learnt your lesson.
On a more serious note, did these "men" know you were underage? I'm guessing so.. which I'm sure you know is classed as child pornography.
To be honest with you, I'm not sure if there is anything you can do about it now, considering it's years later.. but now you've grown up, your best bet is to just realise what you did was foolish and carry on with your life.
Stop beating yourself up over the past. Young people do stupid things. Be thankful you're a lot more wiser and have saved yourself physically.. (not had sex) until you have found the right person.

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(Rating: 5) thank you SO much for ecouraging me when i needed it! i was thinking of killing myself over this since i thought i was never going to be ok again. you saved my life!
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