|
I have sent naked pictures of myself to two older men... Am I a slut?
I feel like such a slut. I've never had sex with anybody and have only kissed anyone about two times. But, I have sent naked photos of myself to two much older men online who I believed love me at the time. The first was when I was 13. The second when I was 15. I am currently 16. Help? I feel terrible.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
The guys were pedophiles. So here is some advice and I hope your will follow through with it:
If you still remember what screen name they were using on what service at the time turn them in. They are probably doing the same thing to other young girls. You can go to your local PD and they can help you with the reporting process and maybe even contact the service providers to get the addresses of the offenders. That way, you will have done the human community some good by taking those criminals off the street. Your silence will help nobody.
As far as loathing yourself for doing it, making mistakes are part of the human experience. All you can do is learn from them. When somebody asks you to do something, step back and ask yourself, "does this really seem like a good idea? Does this really do me any good?" It is your life and you only get to do it once, so take control of it and tell people who make untoward requests of you to piss off.
And remember, if your gut is telling you something is wrong when somebody gives you a line, then something is indeed wrong and you need to scram. ALWAYS LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!
]
Girl You Are Slut!! You Shouldnt Do That! You Were 13 And Sent Out Your First Naked Picture Have Your Parents Taught You No Good? U Are Better Than That !
]
I personaly think that you are not a slut everyone makes mistakes cause when your young u sometimes do stupin things
]
Honestly, hundreds of girls do it and you'd probably be surprised by how many girls you know that have, especially the ones you never thought would. I did it, with one of my friends but I was the same age when you first did. I felt terrible, but I realized it was so stupid and that I didn't have to if I didn't want to. You're beautiful and you don't have to do something so immature to make yourself seem "hot".
]
You are not a slut. You were just very, very naive. but it's good you have learnt your lesson.
On a more serious note, did these "men" know you were underage? I'm guessing so.. which I'm sure you know is classed as child pornography.
To be honest with you, I'm not sure if there is anything you can do about it now, considering it's years later.. but now you've grown up, your best bet is to just realise what you did was foolish and carry on with your life.
Stop beating yourself up over the past. Young people do stupid things. Be thankful you're a lot more wiser and have saved yourself physically.. (not had sex) until you have found the right person.
]
You are not a slut but you used very very poor judgement.
If you ever got caught, You could be charged. They could be charged with child pornography which nowadays is taken very seriously. No matter if you send it through the internet or via cell phone, In fact they just passed a law about minors sending nude photos via cellphones in my state. Also, You need to bare in mind that you should never send a photo you don't want others to see. NEVER fall for the whole "You can trust me, I won't show anyone" It's bullshit. There isn't a whole hell of a lot you can do about it now, Once it was on the internet it's there but for the future references I sure as hell would be very very careful to whom you send your photo's too. In fact I recommend not sending photo's like that too anyone. I don't mean to burst your bubble but your photo's are long gone.......Next time think before you act.
]
More Questions: |