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so i know a month is a short time and i understand. but what youre saying is that we should be totally over the relationship before we become friends and then see where it goes from there?
i dont wanna have the conversation about getting back together yet because i just want to get back to where we started which was being friends and talking casually but my friend said that i should let him text me so it shows where i stand. like if he texts me then i know he is thinking about me. i get that in a way but what if he doesnt text me in a month or something and i decide to text him to talk just for fun. is that alright?
sorry i have a lot of questions
My concern is that if he isn't in the same place as you, you may end up getting hurt.
The reason I suggested having a conversation about it with him was to make sure that both of you had similar feelings. Let's say he had absolutely no interest in getting back together but you were still open to the possibility, it could end in a misunderstanding and further hurt and frustration.
For now, I would give it some space and follow your friend's advice of letting him come to you. If he doesn't after a month then sure, give him a quick text just to ask him how he is etc. If you get talking about then that's great, just please bear in mind that his motives may differ from yours.
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