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13/f
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BEWARE: this might be long.
OK. So i have posted so many questions on the same topic. But i haven't gotten any real good advice. All of my answers usually say "just go with what you think is right" or "its better to do it and say you did the to not and regret it later." so i hope you can give me better advice. like what i should specifically do.
So i have like this guy for a long time. Ive known him since elementary school and he lives two houses away from me. I think I'm IN LOVE with him. now don't say "i think your too young to be IN LOVE" or "you need to wait and see if these feelings leave. if they don't then....." because I've heard it all before. I know for a fact that I'm IN LOVE with him. so i know that he likes me because he asked me out at the beginning of 7th grade. I said no because my mom doesn't approve of neighbors dating. because if we ever break up then it'll be awkward because i see him all over the place. but i like him so much that i am willing to hide it from my mom. But another reason why i know that he likes me is because, not too long ago, we were walking home together and he touched my ass. on purpose. so if that's not flirting than i don't know what flirting is. lol. so i have no idea what to do. do i ask him out myself or just wait for him to ask me out? please help me. and im sorry that this was so long. thank you in advance. (link)
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I'm sorry to hear that you haven't received the advice that you need. However, hopefully, I can give you some good advice, friend. Thanks for inboxing me! :)
Not to worry, I will not tell you that you are too young because I too was in love at thirteen. For most teenagers, it's not really love, but I know that it was for me and it seems to be for you also. It seems that you have already established that you both have feelings for one another, which is the first step. Now, you need to go to step two: Establishing a Relationship.
I'm not really happy about you not telling your mother, however, I'm assuming that you will not tell you no matter what I tell you. :) So I'll go ahead and give you my best advice, friend. He lives a couple of doors down, therefore, it's very convienent for you to see him and talk to him. You need to, when you see him or you may go to his house (whichever you are more comfortable with), talk to him and explain to him how you feel and listen to how he feels as well. If he tells you that he likes you back, which you've already established this (you should still ask though for communication purposes), and let him know that you would like to be more than friends.
I wish you the very best of luck, I'm sure everything will work out just fine. However, I hope that maybe if things do work out, you will tell your mom sometime and maybe she will understand if you two are very serious and it is love.
P.S. I do want to say that you should keep your eyes open at all times for any behaviors that may signal that he's only with you for sexual things. I only mentioned this because he touched your butt, which may not be too big of a deal, just want you to keep an eye out because boys can be very pushy sometimes and you don't want to rush into anything.
Sincerely, LagunaBabe
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