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my friend is a 12/f
she is dating a 16/m

they have been hiding it from EVERYONE for a month a 3 days. they want to wait to tell their parents when they think the time is right.

so she told me that if they ever wanted to kiss or be alone they had to go into a closet at their church.

so do u have any advice for her. thank you in advance.

EDIT: Thanks for providing more information. I think you are right. The age difference is pretty big especially considering she is only 12. I think that you should try to talk to her about hwo she shoudn't keep it all to herself. I think it's important that her parents know especially inc ase something bad happens. And also, I know you are concerned and you want her to be ok. I think if you talk to her about it, it might help a little. She has to be willing to listen to you and hear you out though. Hope that helps :)

What kind of advice are you looking for? Is there anything specific she is having problem with?

In general I would suggest that she at least tells some people she's with him. And when she hangs out with him, she should let a couple people know where she is. This was if (and i hope it won't) something bad happened, someone will know where she is to be able to help.

If you specify the question, I will be happy to asnwer it :)

I hope that helped a little.

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(Rating: 5) she is 12. and she really likes him b/c they've been dating for a month and 3 days. but she doesnt know im asking this. but im worried b/c i think its too much of an age difference. so i just wunna know if u can help me help her. thankyou.

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