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Due to assholes on the site and people who have no idea what the hell they are talking about I have left the site. Ahem, Dangernerd...Who likes to make assumptions about people when they do not know them ;) Then has brass balls to go search up whatever information he can gather so he has back fire to use whenever he feels like starting a little hissy fit. Let me remind those who read this, Dangernerd has a nasty tendency of using what you post on the site against you if you where to ever have a problem with someone on the site. Mind you, He likes to gather false information in a way that he thinks will benefit him in the long run.

This site is run by someone who doesn't have class, Who likes to pigeon hole people. The same guy who supposedly is running an "ADVICE" column but somehow has pre-teens asking about sex and how to do sexual things to their "partners" this site is also filled with people giving advice that is NOT helpful or use full in any form rather than most encouraging the young ones. Well lets get to the bottom of it, This site is a laughing matter. Dangernerd is a joke and couldn't be a bigger clown ;)

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me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year and 4 months. hes 18 and im 17. he jus recently like 2 or 3 weeks ago started night school. well today he uploaded a couple of pics on myspace and they are of him and 2 girls from school. there not touching there like sitting next to eachother like in class. but one pic one of the girls is wearing his hat. im not sure if im over thinking which i happen to do alot. but i remember how he used to post all these pics of him and these 2 girls that lived by him and him with a couple of his friends that are girls. hes one of those guys that every girl likes and he has a bunch of friends that are girls., but im like 99% sure he wont cheat on me. but lately alot we been fighting and getting into arguments and stuff so i been trying to stop acting all the way i been i kinda blame me cause i overthink way to hard about things that dont matter to him. i used to have a whole album on myspace of me and a buncha different guys and he never said anything about it cause to him it was just pictures. nothing more. and im not sure if im just over reacting like how i always do. someone please help me./ i dont want to mention anything to him cause it will jus cause more problems. he already thinks i dont like him having friends. =[ please help thanks in advance

I don't think it's a matter of him looking to tick you off, I think the guy just simply has friends that are female and you are a little paranoid about the situation which causes you to become defensive. If your boyfriend is paying less attention you, Ignoring you and not seemingly as affectionate as he was then there is a possibility that he may or is loosing interest in the relationship. Look for the signs of cheating without making accusations and jumping to the obvious by seemingly suspecting something is up. Study him, Are these girls all he talks about? How does he act when he does bring them up? Is is nervous? Does he act like he is hiding something? Quick to change the subject? If so then I would start to become suspicious to whether something is going on or not. Making assumptions when you don't really have much proof to go by (Not including what I just said) is only going to make him think that you don't trust him. Trust is 99% of a relationship, Until he starts giving you reasons to become suspicious chill out. Act like you are fine with it and it doesn't bother you but keep in the back of your mind that you are looking for clues and signs of cheating. You can do that without seeming so obvious and jumping to assumptions. If he is cheating, Then clearly he wasn't good enough for you and you need to end the relationship.

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou so much! that really does help. especialy the little questions yu said to ask like if he acts diff or changes subject n stuff.that rly helps. thnks

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