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I've known my best friend since 4th grade, and we're almost 20 now. She's been dating her boyfriend for a while. Her boyfriend and my boyfriend used to be best friends, but there was a bunch of drama a while back and they stopped talking. Recently, we all started talking again and everything seemed fine. But today, my friend called me and said that ever since our boyfriends have started talking again, he's been really mean to her and has been acting like he doesn't need her anymore. This was definitely not what me and my boyfriend wanted, we thought it would make everything better since we could all hang out again without the awkwardness. But he's been calling her names and telling her what to do, and just acting weird. Any advice for this situation? (link)
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It seem that unfortunately you all reuniting didn't work out, so I recommend just breaking away from the friendship (your boyfriend and her boyfriend, not you and your best friend). For whatever reason, it seems that your boyfriend and her boyfriend's friendship is toxic, so that should be ended for good.
However, this really shouldn't make her boyfriend treat her so badly (unless that may have to do with the falling out between your boyfriend and her boyfriend). Regardless, your best friend needs to talk to her boyfriend and let him know he cannot treat her this way and she does not deserve this. If he continues to treat her that way, I would tell her to break it off.
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