Member Since:
September 11, 2009Answers:
160Last Update:
June 19, 2010Visitors:
12112Favorite Columnists
Razhie
Alin75
Trauma
WittyUsernameHere
thelaura
Peeps
SarcasticGreetings
triquetra
Main Categories:
Random Weirdos
Friendship
Love Life
View All
about
Due to assholes on the site and people who have no idea what the hell they are talking about I have left the site. Ahem, Dangernerd...Who likes to make assumptions about people when they do not know them ;) Then has brass balls to go search up whatever information he can gather so he has back fire to use whenever he feels like starting a little hissy fit. Let me remind those who read this, Dangernerd has a nasty tendency of using what you post on the site against you if you where to ever have a problem with someone on the site. Mind you, He likes to gather false information in a way that he thinks will benefit him in the long run. This site is run by someone who doesn't have class, Who likes to pigeon hole people. The same guy who supposedly is running an "ADVICE" column but somehow has pre-teens asking about sex and how to do sexual things to their "partners" this site is also filled with people giving advice that is NOT helpful or use full in any form rather than most encouraging the young ones. Well lets get to the bottom of it, This site is a laughing matter. Dangernerd is a joke and couldn't be a bigger clown ;)
advice
i went on a date with a guy i really like today. he was so sweet to me and kept putting his arms around me and holding me and stuff. he asked me what i would say if he asked me out, and like last time i responded by bein so sorry saying idk if im ready and i get so unsure. i kissed him today and he flipped out so happily and his face was so red i couldnt calm him down..
a reason may be hes never had a girlfriend, is younger, and i just got out of one of over a year relationship, over a month ago by my ex cheating on me but im over him.. i really like this guy but i have not a clue whats holding me back.. what could it be? also is it bad that i like him so much but i wont go out yet?
Cheating is a very hurtful thing. You might of moved on physically but it is still there mentally. A month ago is not a long time, The situation is still somewhat of a fresh issue.
Healing takes time, Breakups take time and what takes even longer...is moving on. It's great that you are attempting to date again but ask yourself one question..Are you really ready? Cheating is not only extremely disrespectful but depending on the person who is being cheated on it's like a stab to the heart. Open wounds don't just heal over night, Sometimes they don't even heal in a month. It takes time, You can't spit your knee open get stitches and then take them out in 30 minutes because the pain is gone. You need to heal first, Why do you feel like something is holding you back? Maybe you aren't ready just yet.
(Rating: 5) thanks