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Laura/22/England



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I think my friend is bi. She has had boyfriends in the past but I feel like she is kinda interested in me. It's weird, we hang out on weekends with other girls and she's fine but in school, it's me me me. I feel her looking at me when I look somewhere else and she texts me ALL THE TIME. Not even kidding. She was in school taking a chemistry test and she texted me saying she couldn't figure out the answer. Like, seriously, your taking a test, why are you texting me? It's like she has no life that's how much she texts me. She always asks what I'm wearing the next day and I'll go to school and she'll be wearing the same thing, like jeans and plaid. It's creeping me out. What should I think about this? What do you think? thanks!

Hey, this happened to me a few years back. I know it's annoying but at the end of the day, she obviously admires you (I didn't mean that in a bisexual way.. cos that's just a ridiculous conclusion to jump to!)
If it's really bothering you, talk to her about it, there's no need to be a bitch and hurt her feelings.. just say you need a bit of space, or next time she asks what you're wearing, ask why and perhaps make a joke of it.. or say you're wearing an outfit that you know you aren't going to wear.. then if she asks just say you changed your mind.
If she doesn't get the hint, how about you go shopping for example and point out things you think would look great on her. That's helped me in the past.
Remember though, try to feel happy about it.. you have someone "copying" you because they think you look good and value all the time spent talking to you. It's not all bad. :)

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(Rating: 5) Thanks. It's good to know someone else relates (:
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