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Ugh seriously my life sucks so bad and i just can't deal with it any more.!:(
I have been home schooled for a year now I left public school second semester of 7th grade and now i am in 8th. I lost ALL of my friends from being home school i have not EVEN one friend! I hate being home schooled i want to go back to school so bad i hate being home on a computer all day and i have no freakin life! It's not fair i want to go back so bad i just want to be a regular teen! Whitch leads to my second problem.... I hate the way i look I hate my body and i am to emmberest to go back to school cause I am fat! so thats why i can't go back i hate myslef and i am not strong and comfterable anuff to go back. I just want to be a normal teen, when i was in school i was the popualar girl not the annoyying mean stupid ones but everyone new me. Well now i am nothing. SO to fix my problem i work out everyday!!! 7 out of 7 days running bikeing stretching light weights EVERYTHING!!! i am on like the 4th month so far and i haven't lost a POUND!!!! i don't get whats wrong with me:(? I seriously cry everyday wondering why i can't be happy with myslef and not be huge i just want to be skinny and ughh it's not fair.
Next problem!.... I am the youngest one in my family My siblings cousins everyone! there all at that age were they can go out drink blahh blahh blahh and then theres me i am kinda of an outcast in my family for certin things, but it sucks that i can't be at that age they get to experince things i don't and i am left out it sucks! so bad being the youngest in your family. I hate how i have to prove to them i am not a freakin 5year old anymore the expect me to watch like Pooh bear (not really but do you get what i mean) and it pisses me off how they don't think i no what going on in the world like they think i don't no what sex or anything ugh idk they treate me like im 2 like really? your fucking anoying ugh whatever!! i hate my life and it's such a waist! i don't understand why any of this is going on it's not fair!!!!!!!
SOrry i just needed to let this out cause i have no one to talk to! i tell my mom this all the time but she never helps ugh this suckkss :( sorry if you have any advice feel free to let me no:(

:( I'm sorry you feel so down these days.

Ok so let's me try to give advice on eash of the problems you listed.

-What is the reason you are being home-schooled and why can't you go back to school? It might help of you talk to your parents about it. And if you don't want to go to school because you don't like your image, well I think you should still go to school. There is a friend for everyone in the world if they are willing to find them.

-The reason you might not be losing weight if probably you are eating the same as before. When someone exercises or works out what they are doing is preventing future weight gain. They only way to actually lose weight is to eat less. You will have to eat about 1,100 - 1,500 calories and eat filling foods, like wheat. This along with you working out will help you lose weight. Also don't forget that muscle weighs more that fat so it might help if you look for a slimmer waist than weighing 10 pounds less. Oh and try only exercising every other day. Thsi gives yoru muscles a chance to repair themselves and get stronger.

-I know you are the youngest and it's hard when you can't do anything. I am the youngest out of all my friends. Most of my friends are a year or two years older than me. So it's hard when i can't do anything. Honestly, I don't let it get to me. Why? Because im YOUNG. It's a good thing. I love when my freinds all say they are getting "old" and meanwhile im still a teen. Plus I still hang out with them. Maybe you can hang out with them and not drink or even ask them to hang out with you somewhere else.
I understand how it feels to be trewated like a child though. What did I do here? I acted older. What i mean is I acted more responsible and i told them to not treat me like a child. It takes time sadly, but it works.

I really hope that helped. If you ever need to rant, i'm here. People always rant to me so it's ok.

best of luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice, I do talk to my parents about this and i wannted to hopefully go back January this year, so that was my goal to be happy with myself by then and loose weight... well none of it has been working so far so i just am giving up and i will shoot for next year high school i am still trying to work on myself but i can't do it in a month:(
I Should watch what i eat more i try to i have special k and ii eat fruits and vegtables very often idk i don't understand my body!ughh lol
Well thanks for your advice i really apprecate it.:)

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