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I hate my life:(
Ugh seriously my life sucks so bad and i just can't deal with it any more.!:(
I have been home schooled for a year now I left public school second semester of 7th grade and now i am in 8th. I lost ALL of my friends from being home school i have not EVEN one friend! I hate being home schooled i want to go back to school so bad i hate being home on a computer all day and i have no freakin life! It's not fair i want to go back so bad i just want to be a regular teen! Whitch leads to my second problem.... I hate the way i look I hate my body and i am to emmberest to go back to school cause I am fat! so thats why i can't go back i hate myslef and i am not strong and comfterable anuff to go back. I just want to be a normal teen, when i was in school i was the popualar girl not the annoyying mean stupid ones but everyone new me. Well now i am nothing. SO to fix my problem i work out everyday!!! 7 out of 7 days running bikeing stretching light weights EVERYTHING!!! i am on like the 4th month so far and i haven't lost a POUND!!!! i don't get whats wrong with me:(? I seriously cry everyday wondering why i can't be happy with myslef and not be huge i just want to be skinny and ughh it's not fair.
Next problem!.... I am the youngest one in my family My siblings cousins everyone! there all at that age were they can go out drink blahh blahh blahh and then theres me i am kinda of an outcast in my family for certin things, but it sucks that i can't be at that age they get to experince things i don't and i am left out it sucks! so bad being the youngest in your family. I hate how i have to prove to them i am not a freakin 5year old anymore the expect me to watch like Pooh bear (not really but do you get what i mean) and it pisses me off how they don't think i no what going on in the world like they think i don't no what sex or anything ugh idk they treate me like im 2 like really? your fucking anoying ugh whatever!! i hate my life and it's such a waist! i don't understand why any of this is going on it's not fair!!!!!!!
SOrry i just needed to let this out cause i have no one to talk to! i tell my mom this all the time but she never helps ugh this suckkss :( sorry if you have any advice feel free to let me no:(
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The best advice for you so you to feel more comfortable is to be more outgoing. Live life like it's your last. Accept your surroundings. I'm actually going through the same thing. I actually came back from the Philippines a few months ago after being their for over a year and I was expecting a warm welcome back but instead, I got shady business from most of my relatives and family members. I was more happy to see them again than they were of me. It hurts because it felt like rejection. Until now, it still bothering me but the way I get over it is just being myself and live life to the fullest. Just think that a struggling life always leads to success at the end. Just accept what you get out of life and it also gives you a better advantage in the real world because the real world is full of challenges. Once you overcome the challenges in your life, nothing else matters. Hope that helps you out.
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Okay first off. You arent going to lose a pound if you dont stop and put your mind to it. stop putting yourself down. I am pregnant with my second child. I am 18 years old and had my first son at 15. I didnt ever get to lose the weight and I feel fat and ugly. But i am confident after I give birth to my second child I will lose the weight this time. ITs tough and i know what it is like to go through school trying so hard to be skinny and perfect. First off. cut out all soda, all junk food, all candy. everything like that and put your self on a diet. breads, pasta, things like that arnt to good. meat is try the atkins diet it worked for my mom. start walking strech before you walk. and strech after you walk after two weeks to a month start jogging. warm up before and after. drink plenty of water lift weights 30 minutes a day to tone. listen to music while you jog and clean you head. read in to meditating find away to relax your mind. do this all year and summer. i know the holidays are coming up but be confident hun. good luck. ill prey for you to gain your confident back.
as far as it is for your family, it is something you just have to deal with. go on myspace or facebook and find your friends that you were friends with from school.
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Whatever you don't like your able to change your in control of your life make changes until your satisfied everyone has things they don't like about themselves or they'd like to change it's normal to feel that way think positvely not negatively ignore the people who say mean things
to you..you don't need them in your life just when you think you've got it bad there's always another person who has it worst then you try and ask your parents if you could attend public school
seeing as you being homeschooled isn't working out you can't do anything about your age until your birthday comes around talk to your family and say you'd like to be included more in activites also say you'd like to be treated more maturely talking goes a long way it's better then keeping everything your feeling inside and not saying anything at all :)
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:( I'm sorry you feel so down these days.
Ok so let's me try to give advice on eash of the problems you listed.
-What is the reason you are being home-schooled and why can't you go back to school? It might help of you talk to your parents about it. And if you don't want to go to school because you don't like your image, well I think you should still go to school. There is a friend for everyone in the world if they are willing to find them.
-The reason you might not be losing weight if probably you are eating the same as before. When someone exercises or works out what they are doing is preventing future weight gain. They only way to actually lose weight is to eat less. You will have to eat about 1,100 - 1,500 calories and eat filling foods, like wheat. This along with you working out will help you lose weight. Also don't forget that muscle weighs more that fat so it might help if you look for a slimmer waist than weighing 10 pounds less. Oh and try only exercising every other day. Thsi gives yoru muscles a chance to repair themselves and get stronger.
-I know you are the youngest and it's hard when you can't do anything. I am the youngest out of all my friends. Most of my friends are a year or two years older than me. So it's hard when i can't do anything. Honestly, I don't let it get to me. Why? Because im YOUNG. It's a good thing. I love when my freinds all say they are getting "old" and meanwhile im still a teen. Plus I still hang out with them. Maybe you can hang out with them and not drink or even ask them to hang out with you somewhere else.
I understand how it feels to be trewated like a child though. What did I do here? I acted older. What i mean is I acted more responsible and i told them to not treat me like a child. It takes time sadly, but it works.
I really hope that helped. If you ever need to rant, i'm here. People always rant to me so it's ok.
best of luck!
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awww <3 hey girl, first off i want to say im always here to help. im currently a senior in highschool and im the popular one to but its not as great as it sounds. you have to deal with DRAMA and guys and people saying stuff behind your back. it adds alot of stress to evryones life. second dnt worry about your weight. jus take a deep breath. im very healthy. im 5 foot 5 and i weigh 105. a few tips if you want to lose a few pounds is eat foods that are healthier for you and continue to workout. instead of drinking pop, drink water. eat fruits and vegetables instead of cookies and ice cream. have a salad or soup instead of pizza. jus watch what you eat and youll be able to lose weight.
goodluck with evrythin and if you need anymore help you no who to ask (:
<3 heatherr 18/f
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