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Laura/22/England



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my boyfriend of almost two years cheats on me daily with my "best friend" and they both have the fucking nerve to deny it. which i just found out today. i love him for some strange reason, hes helped me threw so much he was there for me through my cancer and mental schizo rehab and many deaths and has always ben by my side i dont wana let him go but i dont think i can cry anymore, i want to stay with him but i dont? i dont know how to live without him.. what do i do, with explanation or try and convince me or something please :( iv had an extremely hard life im bad at letting go of ppl i love, were both almost 16

Are you CERTAIN he's cheating and it's not just your insecurities niggling at you?
If you're positive, then you must break up ASAP.
Yeah, he's been there for you through the hard times, but most people would do that.. I'm sure you have other friends you can turn to when you need them, right?
If he's been cheating on you this long, every day, why would you want to trust him ever again? Why would you want someone like that so share your problems and help you through them.. Let alone be intimate with you.
This boy clearly knows how much of a hard life you've had and if he can cheat on you, he clearly really has no heart and obviously doesn't know the meaning of love.
End your relationship, because once cheating starts, it's already dead. Give yourself time to get over him and find a boy who will treat you how you deserve to be treated. He will come sooner or later.

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(Rating: 5) thanks, last night over the phone i brought up the idea of takeing a break, but he started crying harder so we didnt. idk what to do, me him and two other friends are gona hangout today bc i wana see him but i dont wana be alone. shud i then?

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