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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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I am 16 female, my bf is 18. So here's the thing, I'm very shy! Not that confident in my "self look," I'm skinny skinny but I'm also not a huge whale, no offense to anyone. I'm a 34C cup, I get embarrassed when he touches me sexually, and very shy too. But I do like it, it's just when he tells me to tell him what I want or like, it makes me get all shy and blah!!! I hate it, on the phone when we talk, he turns me on and says things he'd be doing to me, or wants to do, then when I'm supposed to I get shy or embarrassed and I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO SAY!!!! It really sucks, I've always been more of a pleaser then get pleased, and I like to act not talk about acting. Has anyone lese had this problem? Is it normal? Am I hopeless, will I ever get over this? Him and I have been together for 9 months now, we started fooling around on our 5 month together. What should I do?! :(
heyy there okay let me start off my answering your question.YES its totally normal! almost every girl gets like this!
I know I have. its just a case of mind over matter.
its a confidence issue too you need to think okay what is it exactly thats stopping me?
he is your boyfriend you should be able to feel comfortable doing this stuff with him,some people don't and are shyer then others and need work on it while others it comes naturally but thats okay.
You should definately explain this to your boyfriend because he might start to get the vibe that you dont want to do stuff.
tell him your shy and how you feel and he can help you overcome it. sometimes all it takes is a little reassurance from yourself and him.
keep telling yourself you are beautiful and focus on the positive things about your body,build up your confidence. relax and let go a little bit it might take some time but with pratice you can get there you will get over it i know i did without even realising!
you say you like to act and not talk about acting sometimes its good to talk though your bf is only trying to find out what works for you rather then going and just doing it which could be awful (trust me been there) so i would consider you to be lucky in that departmnet and you should too :) honestly just relax and talk about it you never know it could work wonders.
hope i helped in anyway
much
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much and I have old him, he's paiet with me and says it's ok. But I guess I do have to work on it, thanks a bunch!