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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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15/F. Here's what happened, pretty straight up. This boy was totally ONLY using me to get some action, so I broke it off with him. Then a guy that I was kind of close with/friends with saw that I was really vulnerable and tried to get me to have sex with him... but I had enough in me to say no to him. Well now I just feel like SUUUUCH crap because I feel like guys only want me because of the physical stuff... Like does my personality really suck so bad that that's all they want? I just feel like shit, and once again, pretty vulnerable and I don't want to just fall into another trap. So please, how can I avoid getting hurt again and running to the first guy who shows interest? I don't trust myself right now.
Hey there,
=) okay firstly im sorry this happend you guys are such assholes sometimes.
and trust me your not alone this has happend to soo many girls including myself I know exactly how you feel it happend me twice in a row also and I got to a point where I felt like I would never be good enough for any guy,pretty much the feelings your expierencing now.
DONT for a second think its your personality its just those idiotic sleezebag type guys.
the trick is to not let your gaurd down. way to go for having some self respect not an awful lota girls do theese days it takes guts to stand up and say no. what you need to do is get to know the guy more make it clear that you are in no way easy or skanky and your not just going to have sex with them.
I know it may not seem like it right not but those decent guys who are out there respect girls who are like that an awful lot more.
guys are immature it takes them longer to mature then us and they go through a phase of all they can think about is sex and some never grow out of it.
just stay positive pick yourself back up don't let the other two get you down and emerge confidient and full of self respect from this,when you start seeing yourself in this light alot more guys will too.
hope I helped and that things get better any more questions please feel free to inbox me!
much
(Rating: 5) wow. yes. thats exactly how i feel. like that your just such a sucky person that no one even wants to try and waste the time to get to know you... but i see what you mean. thanks so much for sharing with me.