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Due to assholes on the site and people who have no idea what the hell they are talking about I have left the site. Ahem, Dangernerd...Who likes to make assumptions about people when they do not know them ;) Then has brass balls to go search up whatever information he can gather so he has back fire to use whenever he feels like starting a little hissy fit. Let me remind those who read this, Dangernerd has a nasty tendency of using what you post on the site against you if you where to ever have a problem with someone on the site. Mind you, He likes to gather false information in a way that he thinks will benefit him in the long run. This site is run by someone who doesn't have class, Who likes to pigeon hole people. The same guy who supposedly is running an "ADVICE" column but somehow has pre-teens asking about sex and how to do sexual things to their "partners" this site is also filled with people giving advice that is NOT helpful or use full in any form rather than most encouraging the young ones. Well lets get to the bottom of it, This site is a laughing matter. Dangernerd is a joke and couldn't be a bigger clown ;)
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Ok well me and my beautifull girfriend are probably going to have sex at some point, she has done it before but i havent had a girlfriend before her for 6 years and im still a virgin. what should be normall? we'v done a little bit together before and she was really tense when (omg this is embarrasing to type) i was you know.. doing stuff to her.
im sure it hurt because im inexperienced and dont know where everything is yet. But when we do what can i expect? when she feels good will she tense up when it feels good or when it hurts? or both? what else can i probably expect to maybe hurt for her so i can stop as soon as i notice it. (besides the obvious ow's lol) but dont ruin the ending for me ;D i want to find that out for myself heh heh
btw im 18 and shes 19
All woman are different, Some tense up and others don't. The only way to find out if it is painful for her is to ask. As the only way to become better is not only by doing so but also to communicate.
Below are some suggestions
A Tip: If you are doing stuff to her, It is less painful if you keep your nails clipped so you don't possibly tear or cut her.
1. Take your socks off. Not a single thing is sexy about a man who is naked except for his socks. (lol) ;)
2. Unless we’ve expressly indicated that we like our headlights to be tweaked, do not pinch our nipples in the heat of the moment. They’re very, very sensitive!
3. Sometimes a light touch is better than a strong one. And a sweet kiss with just your lips is better than a Labrador retriever-style kiss with your tongue.!
4. That look of concentration on your face makes it seem like you’re doing calculations in your head, not making love. Smile a little bit, why don’t you? ;)
5. Nipples should be a pit stop on the way to Vaginaville—get off the express train!
Hope that helps you out :)
(Rating: 5) omg that is quite possibly the best answer i have ever gotten xD i loved the socks part, but we allready slept in the buff together (no funny stuff ;D) and we both had our socks on lol thanks alot for the tips :P and for putting them in a funny way lol