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I'm Jessie. I've been on here on and off for about 7 years. I'm 22 :) I am currently in my final year of college studying English and new media I'm from Ireland I dye my hair way too much. I've been blonde,brown,brown with blonde,black,red,and blonde again!I love helping people I found advicenators when I was just 15 and didn't understand the world! I feel I have matured with this site. The people on here are amazing and I love coming on here in my spare time to be there for people in need. I won't tell you what you want to hear because that's not advice it's just fooling yourself. I try to help in whatever way I can I try not to judge and try to relate to a situation if I can. :) If you don't like honesty then you won't like my advice.
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alright, theres this cute guy in the drumline that every girl wants. i feel like i have a closer relationship with him because we both are in the band, but we dont talk. every guy says he is completly out of my league but is it possible to make him be in my league or me be in his league?
1) im in the band, so is he
2) he has brown hair, as do i
3) heres the differences, he only associates with the drumline, i only associate with the band, except my best friend whose in the drumline
4) he's so skinny but he's strong and masculine, im short and not that skinny
5) he is kinda a loner, like everyday at band he talks to the drumline, but at after school practices he walks around alone and at water break he has his water alone, im a people person, i mean, i love having me time but at band i love being around my friends
so! who can i be more like him and have him be attracted to me?!
Hey there okay nearly every girl as been faced with this sitaution at some stage or another and before you do what your thinking of doing dont.
honestly if your intending to change yourself so he will be attracted to then seriously dont.
just be yourself. I know everyone hates hearing that but whats the point in posing as someone your not just so somebody will like you,there not really liking you then are they? its just like your lying to him and yourself and it doesnt feel right trust me ive been there.
so what id advice you to do is just talk to him as you! try to devolop something you two have in common,you dont have to be an exact clone of him for him to like you know so just get to know him and let him get to know you and make his own mind up without automaticly assuming your out of his league.
you cant change people either remember that also.
opposites often attract aswell as they say, so give yourself a chance im sure he will too :) let him make his own mind up so get to know him and see if he starts to like you as more then a friend if he doesnt well youl just have to accept that,you could get to know him more and find you dont actually really even like him that much! your just running on attraction. if you get where im coming from.
anyway I hope I made some sense and helped in anyway,and please dont change yourself for a guy or try change him its really not worth it, find someone who likes you for you :)
Good luck and much
(Rating: 5) so true, i need to be myself, thanks!