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Okay so i should be a pro at this by now, but i'vee been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 3 months today. I love him very very much, but he recently found out that i find a guy at work extremely attractive. my boyfriend and i have disscussed marriage and about a life together. i don't plan on marrying him too soon, but what i really need help on is how do i just focus on him and turn away from this other guy? The other guy that i fine attractive is so sweet to me, but i don't know very much about him. I want to stay with my man, but another part of me is saying it's alright to think this other guy is cute. Is it alright for me to think someone's cute even though i'm dating someone else? I should know this, but i just want some people's opinions. thanks and godbless. oh and i'm 19 and not in school and my boyfriend's almost done with school and he's 20.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu

It is completely OK and natural to find someone else cute even though you are already in a relationship. Getting into a relationship does not make you blind- you will always find other people you are attracted to. For the time being, pick your boyfriend. You've been a stable relationship for some time. Of course, if you no longer feel attracted to your boyfriend you should think things over before taking the relationship further.

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(Rating: 5) you really are good at giving advice....i appreciate it....thanks

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