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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

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i have 3 best friends. one in which is a guy. we go on and off with trying to like each other as more than just friends. but it never works. and that's okay because we continue being friends anyway. lately we have been closer than ever(in a bff type way)and i absolutely love it. i don't really want that to change. BUT he told me last night that he wants more than just "bff" and that he is going to stop being with other girls for me. i said i don't think he could do that(hes sort of a player)even though i know he would for me. i don't even know if i want him as more than a friend at this point. what i do know is i don't want to waste his time. what should i do?

If you don't want to be more than friends, tell him that. You don't want to lead him on.

If you want to try it out, I say go for it, because if it doesn't work out, you can always go back to being friends; sure, it will be a little difficult, but things will work out.

What I don't understand is why your "About The Questioner" says "Male", but all your questions are from female perspective...

--Jack
(17/m)

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(Rating: 5) oh man lol i guess i should change that lol. i am a female :] and u are a male and ur giving great advice
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