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My name is Laura and I'm 28 years old. I live in Illinois and work as a licensed veterinary technician. I am a runner, bookworm and obviously, an animal lover.


I've been on this site since '05. I take hiatuses, but I'm never gone for good. I enjoy giving advice and I've made such lovely friends on this site that I couldn't imagine giving it up!

chat it up yo.


ps. here's my bestestestest friend.
I love him. You will too :)

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ugh boys drive me crazy. so i have a question.(i will try and make this as unconfusing as possible) i am sort of falling for 3 guys at the same time. one i know i don't really like but he is just so much fun to hangout with. and another one he is my best friend. but we are starting to get closer in a different way, but im sort of scared because i dont want to mess up our good relationship. and for the last guy. he doesnt attend my school so its hard cause i dont see much of him. but we text and talk online all the time. i dont know i need help!

Thanks for inboxing :)


We can eliminate one right off the bat. The first guy. You said you "don't really like" him, so forget about it. Just because he's cool to hang out with doesn't mean you have to force yourself to have feelings for him. Just be friends with him and nothing more. It's perfectly fine to be friends with a guy and not have feelings for him.


As for the other two, you just have to follow your heart; do what it tells you. Who gives you butterflies? Who makes you smile when you see them? If they both asked you out right this second, which one would you say "yes" to? Think about it, and then make your decision.


-Laura (17-f)

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(Rating: 5) hmm thanks that really helped :]
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