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I'm Jack/Jamie.I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.
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thanks so much for helping me...but my plan got a little messed up...so we just talked on the phone about some stuff and he said he still has feelings for me, but he isn't ready for a relationship because he kinda just wants to have fun and he thinks its hard work. he then said that if he went to a party with me he wouldn't trust himself because the good feelings would come back. he also said that he's been only thinking about the good times we had together and none of the bad. i asked him to go on vacation with me because i thought the time was right and he said he definetly wanted to but he has to make sure his dad will have left by then (he's a soilder in iraq and comes home for like a month). but he made it clear he definetly wanted to go.... so how can i make him see that he can have fun AND be in a relationship (not fun as in have sex with other girls, but like not have to have relationship stress on his shoulders) i miss him tonssssss =/
How can you make him see that he can have fun? That starts with actually having fun when you hang out.
The relationship part is tricky, and I really don't know how to convince someone that they should be in a relationship with you, mayhaps that comes with showing him that you two can have fun together.
Thanks for inboxing.
--Jack
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(Rating: 5) thanks...we do have fun together, he's told other friends that we still have fun together. but i meant was have fun with his other friends; like we don't always have to be together all of the time.