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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

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I'm Christian and I know lust is wrong. That's why i was super-relieved when I got more into studying the Bible and whatnot and I was distracted by my former thoughts...that was a while ago though. And now they're coming back, especially about the boy that I'm infatuated with...and i don't want to bring him into this, he's a Christian boy!! I don't wanna think of him like that...or think like that at all.

like I said, I know in the Bible it says several times lust and sexual immorality is sin...but i need help stopping the thoughts. I'm praying! if you have any advice, please offer it, if you don't please pray for me.

I'm a Catholic/Christian, and I understand what you're going through with "lustful" thoughts.

We're naturally lustful and have these thoughts, it's just part of being human. That doesn't make it right, especially if you're bringing the thoughts on intentionally.

The way I try to avoid them is by writing poems or reading or going online and playing a game. You just have to do something to distract you.

I guess I didn't really offer advice as much as consolation. I'll pray for you, though =].

--Jack
(17/m)

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(Rating: 5) i think you're the only one who answered the question....
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