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me n my boyfriend are white and my best friend is black. my boyfriend makes raceist comments and jokes alottt. what can i do?? im never gona leave either of them and i already tell them to stop..? (link)
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If your best friend is honestly your best friend, then why would you then choose to stay with someone whom you know makes racial slurs towards him? You wouldn't want your best friend to be doing the same to you, right? I think you should leave your boyfriend, it just goes to show how ignorant he truly is for not being able to see past someone's color and into their heart.
Also, I find it hard to believe that you wouldn't leave your best friend if the situation were turned around and your best friend was making racial comments towards your boyfriend. I'm willing to bet you'd leave him in a second, just because your boyfriend would seem more important. I am not trying to be rude, I just want you to see how ignorant this guy is and that you would be much better off without him.
And friends should come first, especially in a time like this. Your boyfriend could walk off and leave you and you may not even have a friend left by then, if you keep letting them be abused verbally.
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