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:[ okay so long story short.. this guy i liked, who said he liked me started going out with his ex girlfriend. [he basically played me i guess..] and like SOOO much stuff has happened since then [they've been going out for a little over 2 months now..] but he like flirts with me.. sometimes. but i haven't talked to him in a little over a week because im done. IM SO DONE. he has a girlfriend. and it's never gonna happen. like, he used to text e everyday around the same time [on weekdays] late at night... i think that's when his gf and him would stop talking. and he would flirt a little bit, but sometimes he wouldn't, and i never knew what to expect it's like i was always just hanging on. yuh know? so anyways, since i haven't talked to him [he's in one of my classes, i ignore him.] he texted me late last night and said... "hey." then i didnt answer because i was so tired and fell asleep. and he texted me saying, "just outta curiousity why were we like cool and now you seem mad at me again"
i woke up at 10:30 p.m to find that message, and i didn't answer him. i think me not talking to him anymore is eating him alive, but i don't know. I don't know what to think anymore. I like him, I know i do. but i have to get over him, right? i don't want to... but i've exhausted all of my options, yuh know? and like in my class i have with him, a coupl guys flirt with me in that class [they are friends with him] and one of my best guy friends is in that class. well. one of the guys always pokes me and tickles me and im like ahhhh noooo. and when i like walk away the guy i like will be like, "duuuude, don't poke her." and then they'll start "play fighting" i dont get it. why does he do this? is he jealous.
I also saw him at a hockey game and he saw me and i dont know. him and his girlfriend didnt liek meet up until like 3 minutes left in the game. then i left and saw his parents [who love me, we are family friends] and they were talking to me and stuff.
I just don't know what to do or think or ANYTHING. someone help ?! with anything ?! thanks. sorry for the length, i appreciate those who take the time to read and answer this.
You're doing the right thing, hunni.
He has a girlfriend. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldn't be with another girl.
Be friends by all means if it's not hurting you inside, but anything more at this current time isn't going to happen while he has a girlfriend.
and if they happen to break up, don't be a fool and let him play you again.
It just sounds like he enjoyed you liking him. People like to feel wanted.
(Rating: 5) thank youu :]] im gonna try to be his friend, but it feels like im still hanging on when i do that, so as of now, i think i'll just ignore him until im ready and know that i no longer want him :] but thanks againnn.