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ok. um, this is kinda...akward...and scary.
so, me and this guy (we'll call him L) have been going out for the past year. he's one year older than me. L's always been real sweet about the whole sex thing, but lately, he's been...pushing, and i'm kinda scared, cause he's getting kinda angry/violent. i'm scared he's really gonna hurt me, cause he hit me last week when i made him stop, taking of clothes and stuff.
I dont know what to do.
Help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Anytime a man hits you, regardless of it is just once, you are in an abusive relationship.

You need to get out NOW. Don't wait for him to hit you again because chances are he will.

It is completely understandable for you to be scared to break up with him. Talk to an adult you trust and let them know what has been happening. If he tries to hurt you, they will be there to back you up. It is important for you to get out of this relationship ASAP because he will probably leave a mental scar on you, if he has not already.

http://hubpages.com/hub/Dealing_with_abusive_relationships

Read this for more help.

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