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Laura/22/England



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me and my bf have been togethr for almost 2 months. and i liked him so much like a month or two before we got together. well we both told eachother we fell for eachother. and were in love. and i feel like im hella sprung. every song on the radio reminds me of him. i cant go a second without thinking bout him. i get butterflies. i think im seriously sprung. but is that a bad thing? i just dont want to get hurt. cuz my friend is the same with her bf and she got hella hurt recently but there beter now. but my question is how can i not be so sprung? and not be so much in love. i dont want to put all of myself into a guy and something does happen (which i dont think will happen) but still. i dont want to get hurt. well thanks so much in advance!

I'm sure we've all been there at some point.
You're in love - that's definitely not a bad thing. and at this stage, you should be focusing more on the present and enjoying the aspects of it, instead of worrying about getting hurt.
If you two love each other and any problems should arise, you will work through them - that's what love is all about - Sticking together through thick and thin.
It might not be easy, but if you're meant to be, things will work out.
and always remember, it's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.

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(Rating: 5) thankyou! that makes alot of sence. and i completely understand you. i love that last line. its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. the band boys like girls have that in a song. except its saying i wish i never loved at all. cause he got hurt. but anyways. thankyou. im trying not to think about us getting hurt. but its kinda hard because hes been hurt so much and hes still kinda scared im going to hurt him. but im always telling him. im not going to. i told him the other day "im here as long as you keep me.."

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