Erinn_the_bamf's advice column

Im 15 F and a virgin. lol i was wondering, how bad do you think it would be if i had sex with a guy if im dating him for about 4 months.. Also what if this guy was my first boyfriend and first kiss ?

First off, I'd like to say no one on this site can decide for you whether or not you should have sex. Sex is something personal and it needs to be up to you.

That being said, it's also something extremely serious that you need to put a lot of thought into it. A fifteen year old who has dated a boy for a total of four months probably does not know much about love yet. The majority of people need to wait a very long time before they can be sure if they really love a person or not. Furthermore, you DO need to love the person you lose your virginity to because a piece of you will be attached to you for life. Your best bet really is to wait. You hear of people regretting losing their virginity all the time, but have you ever heard of someone regretting waiting? Probably not.

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