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okay,well about a month ago i met this kid. He's a year younger than me and i really liked him. we've hungout at one highschool eventt, with my friends. he became friends with my best friend's boyfriend. and when they went away to "bond", he kept asking my friends boyfriend things about me like "what was her face like when i was hugging her? how did she do thiss or that?" things like that.wouldn't you think that would mean he liked me?-or is it some kind of sick-twisted way of him keeping track on how hard he made me fall for him?(what do you think?)
So after that good time, we didn't hug goodbye. even though he was right next to me. and then he ignores me for two weeks straight in school after that,not even one look. He's always around other girls, and my friends always tell me how hes with at least 5 girls at a time in the hall. I decided it was time to let go and i did. FINNALLY. and what do you know, he starts talking to me again and flirting with me hard core.He always trys to impress me.(supposidly)I CANT HELP BUT FALL FOR HIM AGAIN. he doesn't realize, but he really hurt me. And i'm not sure if he's just trying to make me jealous,or for real is just a player. Anything you know about guys like these? How can i stop falling for him? Any help because i'm so sad about this. thanks
oh sweetie this is the worst. i'm dealing with a guy like this right now too. i thought i was different than the other girls, when i was with him he made it seem like there was nobody else he cared about but then i started realizing he was always texting other girls, he wouldn't talk to me except for when he wanted something and he didn't treat me the best. i didn't want to let him go though, i fell so hard for him. it's not like i could just give up and move on, even though thats what i wanted more than anything. after i started to tell myself i needed to do better, and i did deserve better i stopped talking to him and just like that boy did to you, he started texting me and wanting to hang out again and as always, i gave in. i let myself keep getting hurt over and over, ask me why? i couldn't tell ya. i'm finally going to be strong, be the girl i know i can be and move on from this. i could be missing out on a boy who really does want me and would treat me like a princess, and thats what you need to do too. stop talking to him, even though it will be hard but make him realize that he is not going to get away with this. make him realize you're not just another girl, make him realize that he missed out on the best thing that could of happened to him. he will probably start to miss you, but let him. let him get hurt, just like he hurt you. hang out with your girls, focus on school and your family. a guy will come around who wants you, who wants only the best for you and who knows you are the only one for him. i'm not sure when it will be, but i know that he will come and when he does, he will make you the happiest girl ever and you will look back and just realize that this boy made you stronger. he will probably still be trying to play girls, and he will end up alone and hurt while you're happy with your life :) i hope you realize that you're an amazing person, don't let this boy get to you. i know what you're going through and it is hard, but we just have to know that this is now what we deserve. good luck hun, i know things will work out ♥ LU
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your so right ! thanks (=
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