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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.
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i dated this guy for about 2 years and i was in love. its been about 7 months now since weve broken up, and im not over him due to the fact that for the first 5 months after we broke up we would still hangout and he would still tell me he had alot of feelings for me until i couldnt take all of that bullshit anymore. just last month hes been saying that he missed me and that he still loved me.. then i wouldnt hear from him for another couple weeks.. its just confusing and annoying like if he really loved me he would actually be trying, but he doesnt and i just want to be done with it all because ive been so hurt by all his bullshit! anyways!! i really just want to get over him, any advice on ways to forget somenoe you were in love with? i really wish i could find a new guy to replace him and make me forget him but ive been trying and im just not into anybody.. i thought finding a new boyfriend would be much easier but its not at all. i go out a lot with friends but, it doesnt exactly help me get over him?
it is hard, it really is. love is one of the best things in the world, but can also be the worst. love teaches you everything. you will never forget someone you were in love with and two years is a very long time. you may never let go of the feelings you have for him, at least not for awhile and right now you don't have to let this one go so fast because certain people enter our lives at the most peculiar times, for the most beautiful reasons. they seem to make such perfect impressions while leaving behind an everlasting impact. some of the best things in life appear when you least expect them. things you can never forget. it may take years to forget about him, and move on like you want to but i promise it will get better in time. you need to stay strong. your girls will help you through this. i know that feeling that when you're with your friends and you just want to have fun without thinking about him, but it's all thats on your mind. i get that, i've been through that too many times to count. i've realized that it didn't work out for a reason, at first i didn't want to move on. i couldn't possibly see myself with another boy but then i realized that i didn't need a boy to make me happy, i needed to make myself happy first. there is nothing you can really do to completely get over him, it takes time. but keep yourself occupied, keep hanging out with your friends. don't find yourself sitting at home because it does make things worse. it is hard when he keeps talking to you, and saying that he misses you and that he still loves you but if you really want to get over this boy, you may just have to lose all contact with him. now maybe he just stopped talking to you because you were saying that you just wanted to be done with all of it, and maybe he just thought he was wasting his time on a girl that wasn't going to take him back so he didn't see a point in still trying. most guys seem to get over girls easier than girls getting over guys but don't ever think that he is not thinking about you when he is with his friends, don't ever think that he is not still wanting to be with you, and realized that what he had was one of the best things in the world. stay strong girl, keep your chin up. i know you will get through this, SMILE :) please!! i believe in you ♥ LU
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thanks a lot! and your right maybe he thinks about me more than i thought? i feel like he doesnt actually care and maybe thats part of the reason hes not trying..
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